Holy Matrimony

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“Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man tear asunder.”
— Mark 10:9 —

Congratulations on your engagement! As you embark on your journey toward Holy Matrimony, The Lakes Catholic Community rejoices with you and is eager to assist you in preparing not only for your wedding day, but for a lifelong sacramental marriage in Christ.

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⚠️ Important Pastoral Notice

Mandatory Destination Wedding Policy & Guidelines

Because the Iowa Great Lakes (Milford & Spirit Lake) is one of the Midwest’s premier destination wedding areas, our parishes receive high volumes of wedding requests each year. To ensure every couple receives prayerful, attentive sacramental preparation, please review these policies prior to submitting your inquiry.


📅 The 6-Month Preparation Rule

In accordance with canon law and the Diocese of Sioux City, all couples must contact the parish and begin Catholic marriage preparation at least six (6) months prior to their desired wedding date.

🏛️ Reserve Church Before Reception

Please do not sign contracts or pay deposits with reception venues, caterers, or photographers before your wedding date has been officially confirmed by our Liturgical Coordinator.

📋 30-Day Hold & Confirmation Deposit

Your date is placed on a tentative 30-day hold upon inquiry. A wedding date is officially locked in only after meeting with the parish and receiving your facility deposit.

⏰ Saturday Liturgy Schedule

Saturday weddings take place promptly at 2:00 PM and must conclude by 3:15 PM. The church must be restored to its original state prior to parish confessions and weekend vigil Masses.

Questions prior to filling out the form?
Contact our Liturgy Director at (712) 320-8527 or email liturgy@thelakescatholic.church.
St. Mary’s • St. Joseph’s

Marriage In-Take Form